Following Victoria’s Secret fashion show 2011, many women have started ranting on social networking sites about how inferior they feel in comparison to these models. As a matter of fact, these 34-22-33, long-legged, flawless live mannequins, for many years now, have been the idea of sexy and desirable.
They are sexy and desirable, indeed. But believe me, to be 34-22-33 is not the be-all and end-all of our existence. You cannot have a love/hate relationship with food all your life because our bodies will change NO MATTER WHAT. Diet to the point of starvation is really not an option. Besides, food is one of life’s simple pleasures and it makes us happy. So, why deprive yourself, right? (BUT! It doesn’t mean you can just binge uncontrollably like you have not a care in the world.)
Today, we found this old article published by http://www.dailymail.co.uk that had us asking ourselves: If I don’t love the way I look, who genuinely will?
Published way back in 2009 (we still think it’s relevant), the article discusses the feature Glamour Magazine American Edition had done with Lizzie Miller—not your typical model—who appeared almost naked on the glossy sans the airbrush, Photoshop and any other editing tools usually used to make subjects look perfect.
The author, Linda Kelsey says, “Well, even though it was only 3-in. square and hidden away on page 194, this extraordinary image of a woman with wobbly bits that have not been airbrushed away has sparked a whirlwind of reaction—almost all of it positive.”

Photo courtesy of http://www.dailymail.co.uk
She adds, “What also gives this image such sledgehammer power is that it’s not her breasts or her upper arms or her thighs that draw the eye immediately, but the stomach—the area of every woman’s body that inspires more agonies of self-loathing than any other.”
It is a profound read that inspires to love ourselves and accept our bodily flaws and this is why we’re sharing it with you.
We should remember that we must learn to love ourselves first before we expect others to love us. I think that is only fair. Linda could not have said it any better, “Unless we start addressing the issues, unless we wise up to the fact that our body fantasies can never be fulfilled, we’ll continue to be pointlessly unhappy for a long time to come.”
The moment you make peace with your physical dissatisfaction, the more confident you’ll be, the happier you’ll be.
Read more here: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1210814/Lizzie-Millers-Glamour-magazine-shoot-How-models-picture-shook-world-flabby-tummy-all.html#ixzz1gUs2qFBP
I honestly, sincerely think each of you reading this is beautiful. Love yourself!
Happy Holidays!
-Nikki
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