Raison d’Etre: To love and be loved
Can I tell you about…shopping in Los Angeles. I was recently in the city of Angels for a long weekend to catch up with friends and do a little trendspotting. Over the years, Angelinos have developed their own sense of style and have even launched certain brands into the spotlight as a result of being worn by celeb trendsetters. Hello, remember UGGs?! Now, you can actually say “that’s so LA” as a sartorial reference point.
For day, the look is more relaxed, understated, casual and intentionally somewhat disheveled but with a rock and roll edge and a “because I can” attitude. For the red carpet, they go all out! The current obsession with celebs and what they wear has only added to the allure of the Hollywood lifestyle and aspiring to look like one lives it.
Of course, it doesn’t hurt to have a huge concentration of celebs, demi- celebs and stylists all living within driving distance from Chateau Marmont. As a result, LA has become an accidental style mecca.
Now a trip to Lala land would not be complete without a celeb sighting. I went to check out an MTV award gifting suite that I was a part of. I usually don’t like going to these events but since I was in town, I thought a drive by was in order. As I was getting ready to leave, in comes Ugly Betty’s Eric Mabius with his wife Ivy Sherman. Since I can’t give him a handbag, she had no choice but to take one for him. And you can just imagine the look on her face when I handed her my printed snake clutch that complimented her dress! A happy wife makes a happy husband because he happily posed for the paparazzi avec moi.
Later that day, as I was perusing the jeans at the Diesel store on Melrose place, I literally bumped into American Idol runner up Adam Lambert. I normally would not approach a celeb for a photo op especially on their day off but what are the chances of ever seeing him again? He was totally sweet about getting his photo taken ( he’s obviously new at this) and even chatted with me a bit about the whole ‘not winning’ the title. He was refreshingly positive about the turn of events. He knows he’s made it now so everything else from here on will be a walk in the park.
If you want to know what’s hip and happening in LA, then you have to make your way to Fred Segal Melrose. They have the whole look down pat from the sales associates to the way they merchandise the store. This time they were working the “Commando Surfer” look and I know it sounds disparate but you know what, it actually worked. That’s LA for you, it’s all about the mix.

Since I was in the neighborhood I headed over to see Philip Lim’s new boutique on Robertson. By New York standards, it’s a gorgeous, sprawling space of undulating walls covered in the kind of foam used in recording studios. Philip has a deft hand when it comes to color, cut and details. That’s why he’s become a fave amongst Hollywood A listers.
Next up was Fred Segal Flair in Santa Monica. Owner and buyer Jeannine Braden has always been ‘au courant’. She just ‘gets it’. Jeannine developed her sharp eye and eclectic aesthetic while styling the Go-Gos back in the 80s and Rolling Stone covers. She loves color, print , humor and mixes designer with streetwear and vintage. She’s my kinda girl.

On my must see list is Opening Ceremony, a NY downtown institution recently opened an outpost in West Hollywood in what used to be Charlie Chaplin’s dance studio. It’s a destination store but in LA, everything is a destination so it doesn’t matter. I loved their ‘mini-mall concept’ and it especially worked here where they had ‘shop in shops’ for Hello Kitty, Acne Jeans, Alexander Wang, Nom de Guerre, Schiesser Revival, their own Opening Ceremony label and their most recent collection in collaboration with Japanese mass retailer Uniqlo.
The last but not the least, is the Confederacy located in the artsy neighborhood of Los Feliz.
It’s a deceptively large boutique with women’s clothing and accessories in the front and mens in the back separated by a litte outdoor veranda. Conveniently right beside it is a famous celeb watering hole, Cobras and Matadors. So after shopping, they head over for some tapas. Unfortunately the evening I was there, none such sightings occurred. I had just missed a huge party they threw for Matt Albiani’s book about Surfers. Apparently, it was a celeb packed party. C’est la vie. You win some, you lose some. Next!
So if you’re feeling the need to go trendspotting, I suggest you go West.
Can I tell you about…shopping in Los Angeles. I was recently in the city of Angels for a long weekend to catch up with friends and do a little trendspotting. Over the years, Angelinos have developed their own sense of style and have even launched certain brands into the spotlight as a result of being worn by celeb trendsetters. Hello, remember UGGs?! Now, you can actually say “that’s so LA” as a sartorial reference point.
For day, the look is more relaxed, understated, casual and intentionally somewhat disheveled but with a rock and roll edge and a “because I can” attitude. For the red carpet, they go all out! The current obsession with celebs and what they wear has only added to the allure of the Hollywood lifestyle and aspiring to look like one lives it.
Of course, it doesn’t hurt to have a huge concentration of celebs, demi- celebs and stylists all living within driving distance from Chateau Marmont. As a result, LA has become an accidental style mecca.
Now a trip to Lala land would not be complete without a celeb sighting. I went to check out an MTV award gifting suite that I was a part of. I usually don’t like going to these events but since I was in town, I thought a drive by was in order. As I was getting ready to leave, in comes Ugly Betty’s Eric Mabius with his wife Ivy Sherman. Since I can’t give him a handbag, she had no choice but to take one for him. And you can just imagine the look on her face when I handed her my printed snake clutch that complimented her dress! A happy wife makes a happy husband because he happily posed for the paparazzi avec moi.
Later that day, as I was perusing the jeans at the Diesel store on Melrose place, I literally bumped into American Idol runner up Adam Lambert. I normally would not approach a celeb for a photo op especially on their day off but what are the chances of ever seeing him again? He was totally sweet about getting his photo taken ( he’s obviously new at this) and even chatted with me a bit about the whole ‘not winning’ the title. He was refreshingly positive about the turn of events. He knows he’s made it now so everything else from here on will be a walk in the park.
If you want to know what’s hip and happening in LA, then you have to make your way to Fred Segal Melrose. They have the whole look down pat from the sales associates to the way they merchandise the store. This time they were working the “Commando Surfer” look and I know it sounds disparate but you know what, it actually worked. That’s LA for you, it’s all about the mix.

Since I was in the neighborhood I headed over to see Philip Lim’s new boutique on Robertson. By New York standards, it’s a gorgeous, sprawling space of undulating walls covered in the kind of foam used in recording studios. Philip has a deft hand when it comes to color, cut and details. That’s why he’s become a fave amongst Hollywood A listers.
Next up was Fred Segal Flair in Santa Monica. Owner and buyer Jeannine Braden has always been ‘au courant’. She just ‘gets it’. Jeannine developed her sharp eye and eclectic aesthetic while styling the Go-Gos back in the 80s and Rolling Stone covers. She loves color, print , humor and mixes designer with streetwear and vintage. She’s my kinda girl.

On my must see list is Opening Ceremony, a NY downtown institution recently opened an outpost in West Hollywood in what used to be Charlie Chaplin’s dance studio. It’s a destination store but in LA, everything is a destination so it doesn’t matter. I loved their ‘mini-mall concept’ and it especially worked here where they had ‘shop in shops’ for Hello Kitty, Acne Jeans, Alexander Wang, Nom de Guerre, Schiesser Revival, their own Opening Ceremony label and their most recent collection in collaboration with Japanese mass retailer Uniqlo.
The last but not the least, is the Confederacy located in the artsy neighborhood of Los Feliz.
It’s a deceptively large boutique with women’s clothing and accessories in the front and mens in the back separated by a litte outdoor veranda. Conveniently right beside it is a famous celeb watering hole, Cobras and Matadors. So after shopping, they head over for some tapas. Unfortunately the evening I was there, none such sightings occurred. I had just missed a huge party they threw for Matt Albiani’s book about Surfers. Apparently, it was a celeb packed party. C’est la vie. You win some, you lose some. Next!
So if you’re feeling the need to go trendspotting, I suggest you go West.
Can I tell you…about the after party at the High Line. Following the CFDA Awards, me and my posse headed downtown to attend one of the hottest parties that was happening that evening. Friends of the High Line and Calvin Klein were hosting the event.
Upon entry, we were greeted by the longest bar ever; bathed in purple light and flanked with model/ bartenders it was a sight for sore eyes. For once, there was no waiting for drinks much to everybody’s delight. You asked for it, you got it…subito!
The space was packed with an incredible cross section of New York’s movers and shakers, fashionistas and celebrities. I met the iconic anti-model and artist Tony Ward,(yes, he dated Madonna briefly) who was surprisingly very friendly and totally into having his photo taken with me. Can I tell you…that totally made my night.
Swarovski Award winners Alexander Wang and Justin Giunta joined Edward Norton, Tom Sachs, Diane von Furstenberg, Zoe Saldana, Debbie Harry, Lake Bell, Taylor Lautner,Bradley Cooper, Gerard Butler and Lisa Marie to inaugurate the space.
Almost everybody from the CFDA Awards were here so it was a bit of dejavu but by this time of the evening, we were all getting ever so slightly intoxicated and having way too much fun.
Photographers David Xavier Prutting and Neil Rasmus were mingling with the crowd and taking tons of photos. At this kind of an event, nobody is camera shy and these boys know everybody!
Julia Restoin-Roitfeld, Meredith Mellilng Burke, Jason Wu, Philip Lim, Richard Chai, Alejandro Ingelmo, Robert Geller, Erin Fetherston, Francisco Costa and Italo Zucchelli were all sipping cocktails and strolling through the park. It was such a magical evening, I was on a high!
At one point in the evening we were getting hungry again and my friend, Peter Som even offered to whip something up from his apartment since he lives nearby. I think that was the vodka talking but if you didn’t know already, Peter not only cooks a great meal but he can bake a mean pie!
This was my second party at the High Line hosted by Calvin Klein and it was just as fabulous. It was also a fundraiser and open to the pubic. Proceeds from the ticket sales will go towards supporting the maintenance and operations of the park.
I can’t wait to see the park during the day. I’ve heard it’s absolutley gorgeous! That’s next on my list after I get back from Hong Kong. I had a flight to catch the next day. Stay tuned!
Can I tell you…about the after party at the High Line. Following the CFDA Awards, me and my posse headed downtown to attend one of the hottest parties that was happening that evening. Friends of the High Line and Calvin Klein were hosting the event.
Upon entry, we were greeted by the longest bar ever; bathed in purple light and flanked with model/ bartenders it was a sight for sore eyes. For once, there was no waiting for drinks much to everybody’s delight. You asked for it, you got it…subito!
The space was packed with an incredible cross section of New York’s movers and shakers, fashionistas and celebrities. I met the iconic anti-model and artist Tony Ward,(yes, he dated Madonna briefly) who was surprisingly very friendly and totally into having his photo taken with me. Can I tell you…that totally made my night.
Swarovski Award winners Alexander Wang and Justin Giunta joined Edward Norton, Tom Sachs, Diane von Furstenberg, Zoe Saldana, Debbie Harry, Lake Bell, Taylor Lautner,Bradley Cooper, Gerard Butler and Lisa Marie to inaugurate the space.
Almost everybody from the CFDA Awards were here so it was a bit of dejavu but by this time of the evening, we were all getting ever so slightly intoxicated and having way too much fun.
Photographers David Xavier Prutting and Neil Rasmus were mingling with the crowd and taking tons of photos. At this kind of an event, nobody is camera shy and these boys know everybody!
Julia Restoin-Roitfeld, Meredith Mellilng Burke, Jason Wu, Philip Lim, Richard Chai, Alejandro Ingelmo, Robert Geller, Erin Fetherston, Francisco Costa and Italo Zucchelli were all sipping cocktails and strolling through the park. It was such a magical evening, I was on a high!
At one point in the evening we were getting hungry again and my friend, Peter Som even offered to whip something up from his apartment since he lives nearby. I think that was the vodka talking but if you didn’t know already, Peter not only cooks a great meal but he can bake a mean pie!
This was my second party at the High Line hosted by Calvin Klein and it was just as fabulous. It was also a fundraiser and open to the pubic. Proceeds from the ticket sales will go towards supporting the maintenance and operations of the park.
I can’t wait to see the park during the day. I’ve heard it’s absolutley gorgeous! That’s next on my list after I get back from Hong Kong. I had a flight to catch the next day. Stay tuned!
Job: Luxury Lifestyle Expert, CEO of Bon-Luxe Enterprises (includes Bon-Luxe.com, Coco Luxe and Luxe House), founder of Charlie & Friends Charity Foundation, but most of all a wife, a daughter, a sister and a good friend
Live: Waterfront, New Jersey & Hong Kong
Brunch: anywhere that is enjoyed with my husband
Drink: Spicy Hot Chocolate Chai Latte from Tracy Stern Salon Tea Bar
Eat: Petrus in Hong Kong; Artisanal Bistro in New York and La Savadina in Capri, nothing beats dining in a Lemon Garden overlooking the Mediterranean Sea
Escape: Santorini & Capri or that singular moment when the Hong Kong’s Star Ferry boat hits the center of Victoria Harbor engulfing you in the most breathtaking skyline in the world and my heart skips a beat …
Read: Elle Magazine and Town & Country
Listen: Black Eyed Peas
Watch: Beaches
Indulge: Macarons, shoes, Hermes, anything I shouldn’t be having such as pizza and pasta, did I mention shoes?, sun & sand anywhere and anytime …
Shop: Lane Crawford in Hong Kong, Neiman Marcus anywhere in the US, Colette in Paris, C’est Si Bon on Catalina Island
Fashion: Rebecca Taylor, Prada, Collette Dinnigan, Luca Luca, Chanel
Aspire: Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis
Charity: Charlie & Friends, a charitable organization I founded to collect funds to raise awareness about puppy mills and to help build an animal orphanage in NJ. Project Ladybug, helps cancer ridden underprivileged children and American Diabetes Association, because my father passed away due to diabetes when I was 13.
Dream:a perfect world complete with my own animal orphanage, a cliff side home on the island of Santorini, an 800 square feet shoe closet & lots of time spent with families and friends
Accessory: I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE my Taylor clutch because it has all my favorite colors on there: lavender & orchids and it’s a snakeskin printed leather … seexxxy!!!. I use it at with cocktail dresses as well as cami’s & jeans. J’Adore Rafe!!!
Raison d’Etre: To live and love to the fullest and to continue living all over the world.
Happiness: Any of the wonderful days I spend with my husband and Doberman Stella.
Brunch: I’m not much for brunch. I like breakfast or lunch. But when I do brunch I like Grey Dog or Felix.
Drink: Rose Bar in NYC and Seglarhotellet in Sandhamn, Sweden.
Eat: I love Waverly Inn in NYC and Satyricon in Rio de Janeiro.
Escape: To escape from the world – Los Roques, Venezuela.
Read: I read tons of magazines each month. Harpers Bazaar, W magazine, Vogue, New York Magazine and Vanity Fair are favorites.
Listen: Music junkie! Love Keane, M.I.A, Prodigy, John Legend, The-Dream…
Watch: Too restless to watch movies.
Indulge: Real Housewives of New York City, Real housewives of New Jersey, Real housewives of O.C.
Shop: Henri Bendel, Bergdorf, Rickys, Intermix in NYC. Calypso in St Barths.
Fashion or Splurge: 3.1 Phillip Lim, Oscar de la Renta, Matthew Williamson, Marchesa, Zac Posen and many more…
Aspire: I admire many of the style icons such as Bianca Jagger or Kate Moss but I don’t dress like them and nor do I try to.
Charity: My sponsor child Josef in Liberia and WSPA.
Dream: Big! And my dreams always come true!
Accessory: My Amy Tote that Rafe designed for Tibi. It’s such a fun, colourful and versatile bag! It works for a weekend in the Caribbean or for living the city life.
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